Zionsville Times Sentinel

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April 16, 2014

No Internet for blind date checks in Dark Ages

A friend posted on her Facebook last week that it was her 23rd anniversary. That number in itself was pretty noteworthy in this day and age, but what made it noteworthy for me was that she was married to a man she met on a blind date. The blind date wasn’t a love-at-first-sight, let’s-start-a-relationship kind of date. In fact, it went so poorly that she vowed not to go out with him again. Apparently the friend who set them up was sure they needed to be together, so she kept pestering my friend until she went out with the guy again. And to hear her tell it, she is completely glad she did. If only all blind dates had such a happily ever after. I went on a blind date once. The friend who set me up said her boyfriend had a friend who was just coming off a divorce and was having trouble meeting people. I have always had an open mind when it comes to dating, so I agreed to go out with the guy. This was in the Dark Ages of blind dating before you could do a quick Internet search of potential dates or get to know each other via text a little bit first. We decided to meet midmorning and go to a park for a picnic. So while I was in the car with this new guy making small talk, I mentioned that his friend said he was having trouble meeting people after his divorce. That is when the glass shattered. It turns out that the divorce happened right after he was sent to prison. See Wednesday's Times Sentinel for the full story.

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